I had my first foster care dream last night (or this morning, as I caught a little more sleep between when Pterodactyl went back to sleep at 5:30 and when I had to get up at 7:00). I was with Pterodactyl at her visit, sitting on the floor of the visit room while her mom held her. Her mom had a friend with her, too, and they were just chatting with each other. I chimed in now and then, and it was an atmosphere that was a little awkward but happy. For whatever reason, I didn't have Rhinoceros with me like I usually do, and after a little while I left the visit room and was using a computer in one of the cubicles of the agency. Then the CW that helped lead our initial foster care training came up to me and told me that she thought at first I wouldn't be a good foster parent because I was too much like a father figure (no, this didn't make sense) but now they were so glad I was with them.
So, a little weird, but overall a nice foster care dream, I'd say.
Compare to reality: Pterodactyl did have a visit today, and we headed on our way on snowy, icy roads. I heard my cell phone ring and pulled over to listen to the message. Her mom had cancelled earlier this morning, but didn't communicate it the way she was supposed to, so I was just finding out now. We turned around and headed home. I was grateful I didn't have to drive up and down the treacherous hill to the agency's parking lot, but sad for Pterodactyl and worried about her mother. She didn't have any visits the week of Thanksgiving because we traveled with her, then last week her mom cancelled both. Part of me is full of anger, unable to understand how someone would choose not to see their baby for two-and-a-half weeks. Part of me knows what her mom struggles with, that she's not in a good place, and that she needs our prayers.
Still waiting for any information about her move to her grandma. We leave for Canada for Christmas on the 21st. I'm desperately trying to make things happen so that she is either with her grandma before then, or we have permission to take her with us, but it's completely out of my control besides bugging people about it. I'm waiting until the end of the day for a reply from one person, and if I don't get one, tomorrow will have to be my first Call the Supervisor experience.